In an appearance with Günter Grass, Norman Mailer “said he searched his own life to figure out why Mr. Grass didn’t speak about his (Waffen-SS service) earlier. ‘What have I held onto for so long?’ he asked, and then answered: stabbing his second wife, Adele, in 1960. ‘It’s something I’ll probably never write about,’ he said. ‘I’ve never felt ready to write about it.'” (first item)