“It’s real because it’s a visceral, emotional thing and we all know that. We all know that when the engagement breaks up, you give back the ring. People who keep the ring are really [makes a face of great disgust]. These are emotional balances. They’re in us long before money enters the picture. They’re in us as kids, little kids. ‘It’s not fair,’ kicks in probably between 3 and 4, big time.”